The passing of Sally, my beloved half-Arabian mare, in April 2025, marked a significant turning point in my life. Sally had been my constant companion since 2006, setting an incredibly high standard for any future horse. However, the last few years of her life were marred by multiple health issues, leading to her permanent retirement. This experience made me contemplate the future of my equestrian pursuits and the role of horses in my life.
The moment of Sally's death brought a mix of emotions. While it was a relief to be free of the constant worry and care associated with her health, it was also a deeply sad experience. This duality of emotions prompted me to reflect on the impact Sally had on my life and the potential implications for my future.
After the initial grieving period, I found myself contemplating a range of options. One idea that briefly crossed my mind was to sell my young horse, Bucky, and find new homes for my donkeys. This would have freed up space in my schedule, but I quickly realized that my horses play a crucial role in maintaining my mental well-being. As such, I dismissed this idea, recognizing the importance of horses in my life.
This experience taught me a valuable lesson about the deep connection between humans and their equine companions. It made me realize that the bond between a rider and their horse is not just about the physical aspects of riding but also about the emotional support and companionship they provide. This realization has shaped my perspective on the future of my equestrian pursuits and the role of horses in my life.
